Nov 20 2008
What Exactly Is Sexy?
The word sexy is defined by many sources as “Having sexual appeal; suggestive of sex; Very attractive or appealing, voluptuously sensual in appearance or behavior.” No matter where you go, everyone you run into is going to have a totally different explanation or view on what they think is sexy. This is especially true when it comes to opinions on what characteristics make a woman sexy. Society does have the same old typical ideals which it pushes upon females of the rail thin blonde bombshell, with a washboard tummy, and unrealistically huge breasts. These images are so fake, in fact, that anyone would know that they are either graphically engineered, or carved out in the very best plastic surgeon’s office. To believe that every woman should look that way is also another widely generated mass trickery. Variety as they say is the spice of life.
So what exactly is a general idea of sexy? Well, in my research most men have said that the ”right attitude” the female has about herself makes up a big part of her being sexually attractive. In many studies, when viewing a woman walking with her head held high indicative of a self-assurance, men almost always said that the woman was very attractive. What this tells me is that women as a whole need to be more confidant and strong.
So when you walk past the guy you have a crush on, walk by with your head held high and watch where you’re going. Odds are that he’s probably checking you out, and finding your self-esteem to be a big turn on. Don’t be afraid to flex your attitude muscle, guys like being bossed around to some degree. At least, in a friendly way. That doesn’t mean you should start beating him up and body slamming him so as to embarrass the hell out of him in front of his friends. A sexy attitude is a good ice breaker though. It shouldn’t be just something you use to get a guy’s attention. Confidence is something you should use and make a part of who you are each day, and that in itself is sexy.
